Caption: Hold your hand, grow old with you. Marriage is the acceptance of a sweet warmth.
Shanghai is an emigrant city, annual many new Shanghai people pulled a hand to go one case here. When they talk about marriage talking to marry, choose a problem to be placed before together, bridal dot chooses Shanghai or return old home?
Mr Feng that comes from Hainan and Zhejiang girl An Zi are in love in Shanghai marry. When the choice is nodded bridally, he became only selection of subject of and rather than of a many selection of subject. Hainan, Zhejiang, Shanghai, his wedding did 3 times in 3 ground respectively. Thousands of lis rush about, the fete of 3 places. Bridal, how " tired " word Oh!
Nuncupative person: Mr Feng, male 30 years old, company employee
The first wedding: The desert in face of a battle that accompany man
Place: Hainan
The first wedding is in Hainan, this year on January 8. My marriage holiday is 10 days, because want to be in between by a definite date,the native place of I and wife does wedding each, every place we can stay 5 days only.
According to Hainan consuetudinary, the leading role on wedding besides bridegroom bride, still have a matron of honour that accompany man, they are the pretext when relatives and friends proposes a toast.
Before wedding 3 months, I accompany man and a matron of honour with respect to what begin the unmarried friend with choose good capacity for liquor to do me, chose fellow students of two junior high school finally. Set out in us answer Hainan before today, receive classmate telephone call suddenly, saying is the partner man that cannot become me. Because others already had been done twice to accompany man before him, those who press Hainan is consuetudinary, if become partner man 3 times repeatedly, oneself cannot find cummer. He is indifferent to, but the parents in the home does not agree stoutly, say the person that is him 30 years old did not find a girlfriend up to now, the cause that often perhaps is man of others keep sb company namely!
My friend in native place is original little, mostly already wive is parturient, want to look for a Wang Laowu to still have difficulty really. Leave wedding to have only 3 days at this moment, I keep seek a person everyday, the classmate's classmate, the friend's friend, the kin of kin... made countless telephone calls, I what can search searched, cannot find a right person namely actually! Before wedding one in the evening, I abandoned eventually. I say solemn and stirringly with the wife, I drink all wine, make me drunk bout!
Bridal that day, I and wife are in the cup of relatives and friends dish move back and forth in crisscross propose a toast. Kin friend sees without companion man a matron of honour declines to meet a guest for us, also do not have too embarrassed we. This one is bridal, spend in safety at long last. But, can take a wife to see the time that the sea shops originally, beautiful went up in man seeking partner.
The 2nd wedding: Wine desk " evil do "
Place: Zhejiang
The native place of wife of the 2nd bridal fight in some places one by one -- Zhejiang kind brook, on January 15.
Wife home is in Zhejiang country, although she shifts to an earlier date for many times to hit precautionary needle to me, saying is friend of the kin on wine desk very meeting " evil do " , let me have thought preparation, but I still did not think of them " pattern classics " it is so many unexpectedly.
The tradition according to wife native place is consuetudinary, on feast, bridegroom and bride must satisfy all requirements of the guest. Although farther-in-law mother-in-law already followed their kin friend to make call beforehand, ask them not to embarrass I son-in-law of this other place, but I still encountered a variety of kindness " evil do " : Let I and wife close take a candy, close bite an emperor female fruit, kiss in public... make a person awkward most, be to one desk guest asks me every lunar income is a few 200?
Of course, most still is to let me drink. Altogether placed more than 20 desks that day, I according to relatives and friends people requirement, completed a certain number of normative actions, answered a certain number of needing answering question, still drank a certain number of cup yellow rice or millet wine. The drunk wine that has escaped in Hainan is in Zhejiang come true, how do to finally I do not remember me leave wine desk. The wife says, actually I did not respect wine, ran back to a room to sleep with respect to oneself, let the relatives and friends of a few desks has small decline quite finally.
The 3rd wedding: The trouble of marriage gauze
Place: Shanghai
Last wedding is in Shanghai, on March 5.
The wedding in both sides native place basically is bilateral parents is in get together, and the wedding of Shanghai basically is fete most I and wife work in the same place in the friend of Shanghai. Book wedding breakfast to the ground is nodded and marry invitation, make an appointment makeup girl and hairstyle division, order make festooned vehicle and marry cake... all matters concerned are held by ourselves do. Will begin October from last year, our be in this basically on the weekend to be prepared bridally with respect to bad news went up, I sit on fair car repeatedly wanting to want to ask what person, should go where ordering happy candy, and the wife begins insomnia to be prepared bridally even.
Most let what poll aches or marry Dresses. In two wedding of Hainan and Zhejiang, what the wife wears is Chinese style Dresses. And the wedding of Shanghai, the wife says to want to wear Western-style marriage gauze. Which girl does not think gauze of dress white marriage marries? I agreed of course.
The wife asks again, is marriage gauze be hire or bought? Her opinion is to buy, because marry,one kind Dresses also is marriage symbolizes, meet us keep sweet memory. Who does not want sweet memory? I also agreed of course.
Inn of gauze of photography city, marriage... we saw another, either price is too high, it is design dissatisfactory. The friend says the marriage gauze of Suzhou is cheap, we ran technically on the weekend again Suzhou, still do not have finally result and return. Arrived at the beginning of Feburary, soon wedding day near, the style that the wife is forced to go up according to fashionable magazine is urgent order did. Cannot think of, this marriage gauze wanted us finally 8000 ocean. For beautiful memory, my pouch paid enormous price.
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